Showing posts with label career mistakes. Show all posts
Showing posts with label career mistakes. Show all posts

Friday, August 3, 2012

It’s the Little Things that Matter – Five Small Details you Need to Pay Attention to When Looking for a Job!



Hello Internet!  I’m back from last week’s hiatus and ready to help you get a job!  Things are going great here in Iowa.  We’ve cooled down from last week’s heat wave where I counted at least seven times that I got in my car and saw a temp of over 105!  It really is amazing how everything is relative – today it’s going to be 96 and people are acting like its fall.  Ahh the Midwest!  Last night we experienced one of the  cooler things in our little corner of the world – The National Hot Air Balloon Classic.  My kids loved it!



Today I’m going to talk about some of the little details that help you get a job.  Of course you need to have an awesome resume, finely pressed suit, strong linked in profile and the like.  This is all really important.  However, many people have all of these things and still don’t get the job even though they are more qualified than other candidates.  Why?  It’s because they don’t do the little things that set them apart.  Below are five little things you can do to enhance your profile and get the job:

1.  Learn how to leave a voicemail
Here’s the deal.  Your voicemail’s say a lot about who you are. The first thing you need to know is that most people hate voicemails.  I mean they really hate them.  What do they hate more than voicemails – really long voicemails.  The problem with voicemails is that you really can’t help your candidacy as much as you can hurt it.  A long winded, stream of consciousness, bland voicemail  will either make you look a) incoherent, b) boring, or c) annoying.  So, what should go into a voicemail?  A good voicemail should have three things:

  1. Your Name – Hi Rick – It’s Jenny
  2. The Purpose – I’m returning your call, I’m responding to your ad, I think you saw my number on the wall.
  3. Your number – Please call me back at 867-5309

A couple of other things on this matter.  If you need to get more info across, let them know that you will follow up over email. Finally, smile when you leaving the voicemail.  It will come through.

2.  Learn how to send an Email
Email has become so informal lately and while I personally think that this is bad for us as a society it is acceptable to use it as some sort of bastardized version of instant messaging between people you know well.  However, if you are emailing someone that you are looking to impress – you know because they are maybe going to hire you, you should probably put a little bit of thought into it.  At the end of the day you should treat email correspondence with a potential employer as a way to set yourself apart.  Here is what you need in an email:
  • Give a salutation – the simple act of acknowledging that the other person has a name will put you ahead of the masses.
  • Use punctuation and capitalization – I don’t care if you are typing on the world’s tiniest iPhone – you appear stupid and lazy when you don’t take the extra millisecond to capitalize my name or put in a period.
  • Write in complete sentences with paragraphs – first of all its really hard to read without them.  Secondly, if you can’t take the time to write a coherent, grammatically correct and fully formed message – how much do you care about this job?
  • Spelling – errors or relying on spell check make you look stupid

3.  Follow Directions
This one is really, really important.  If a company tells you to email them your resume.  Email it. Don’t mail it. Don’t fax it (If you are using a fax machine still…that’s a whole other problem).  Secondly, if the ad doesn’t ask you to call – don’t call.  I will tell you that there is some gray area here with calling.  If you are responding to a posted job advertisement with a company – you shouldn’t call.  The reason – the person conducting the search has other responsibilities than the search alone.  I can guarantee that there are so many other people calling that you will not set yourself apart in any sort of positive way. 
However, there are two areas where you can call.  First, if it is an independent recruiter like me – call away – these people’s jobs are to talk to people about getting jobs all day.  If they are bothered by your call – find another.  Secondly, if there isn’t an opening at a company that you want to work for and feel that your background would fit with them it is acceptable to call the hiring manager (or a potential hiring manager) and ask for permission to send them your resume.  Anyway, back to following directions.
While companies don’t put directions on an ad as a test it still acts as an informal test.  The inability to follow directions will lead the company to make some (possibly) inaccurate assumptions about you.  Some things that they might surmise from this:
·        You don’t respect authority
·        You can’t read
·        You think you are smarter than the rest of us
·        You can’t do basic computer skills (this is for you faxers out there)

Anyway – I’ve written more about this subject before and you can read about it here:


4.  Cover Letters
It’s time for a dirty little secret.  Generally speaking the odds of someone taking the time to thoughtfully read your cover letter is virtually non-existent.  Yet – companies expect that you send one.  It’s just one of those stupid things that are a vestige from another time – like the fax machine.  So, how do you write a cover letter?  You need three paragraphs.
            The first paragraph should have about three sentences.  Introduce yourself, state the job you are applying for and where you saw it.  The last paragraph should be equally as short – it should thank them for their time, give them the phone number and email you would like to be contacted at and suggest an interview. 
            The middle paragraph is the most important.  It must be short  but powerful and use bullet points.  The paragraph should look something like this:
            I feel my experience would make me an excellent fit for this position.  Specifically when I worked at Initech I accomplished the following:
  • Organized paperwork using my Swingline stapler
  • Was the top producer of TPS reports in the company
  • Assisted in the removal of faulty office equipment
  • Successfully collaborated with a team to create a software program that made the companies finances more efficient

So – why should they be short?  It’s because there is an inverse relationship between the length of a resume or cover letter and the likelihood someone will read it.  In other words – people are lazy and busy and won’t take the time to read your cover letter if it looks like a chore.

5.  Short Answers
We live in a world where information is spoon fed to us in sound bites less than 30 seconds, messages with less than 140 characters, text messages and posts.  Why?  That’s all the attention span that our poor brains can handle.  When you are interviewing you need to know this and embrace it.  Now – I’m not telling you to start rolling out a bunch of LOL’s or BRB’s.  However, you need to limit how long an answer is and give the other person a chance to talk.  An interview should be a conversation – not a soliloquy or prepared speech.  So how do you do this?  It’s easy – practice and be conscious of time.  One tip I give people is to Google and find a list of the top interview questions.  Pick a couple of them and practice answering them in front of a mirror with a stop watch.  If you are under 2 – 3 minutes you are doing well.  If you are pushing five minutes or more – you need to get out more and get that out of your system.

That is all I’ve got for today.  As always let me know your thoughts on this and feel free to leave a comment.  Also feel free to email me directly at sthompson@insurance-csg.com.  

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Monday, June 25, 2012

Dealing with a Lowball Offer – Don’t get mad – Get the Job!



 Good day to you all!  Summer continues to move along nicely here in the Thompson household.  Kai is getting bigger.  Spot is getting bigger. And Ava and Mia keep making me sad by acting like big kids.  It’s also a special day for me – seven years ago today I married my wonderful, terrific, stupendous, bestest wife ever, Megan.  I am truly blessed! (I hope she is reading today…)



Now, on to my thoughts for today.  I recently was talking to a candidate of mine that was sharing a story about his last job.  This individual is very successful, qualified and has terrific experience.  He imparted to me that he recently received an offer from a company that was really low – his response was to laugh, act insulted and tell them that they would have to come up with something better than that to get him – after all he was unique and highly skilled.

Believe it or not – this happens more often than you think and to be honest it is a trap that many candidates fall into.  Before we talk about what to do, it is important to understand why offers come in low.  Below is a quick list of potential reasons:

  1. Your salary needs haven’t been adequately communicated
  2. Company is limited by budget
  3. When a range is given the candidate always assumes the high and the company assumes the low
  4. Candidates have unrealistic expectations
  5. The salary matches the position and not the candidate
  6. The company wants to leave room to reward you for good service
  7. The company wants to keep your salary in line with others in the organization (it is never anyone’s business what you make but somehow things like this seem to always get out – especially when there are inequities)

You’ll notice that I didn’t put in:

  1. Because they really don’t want to hire you and want to make you mad

You see – when a company makes an offer it is because they like you, want you to be a part of their organization and value you.  Sometimes they get the offer wrong or are unable to get it right.  So… if you like the company and they like you – why do people choose to respond like a wounded puppy?  It’s because we tie our ego to our salary – in our culture our salary is an estimation of our value.  If it were just another factor then people’s initial reaction would be to figure out how to work something out instead of getting mad.

Below are  five ways to deal with the low offer and get the job!

1.  Take a deep breath!
The first step is to take a deep breath and remember that the company isn’t trying to disrespect you.  In fact – you should be preparing yourself for the worst case scenario beforehand so that you are surprised if it is good.  Not mad if is bad. 

2. Set Expectations Beforehand
I’ve harped on this over and over and will never stop.  Talk about your salary needs.  For some reason people are really afraid to discuss their salary needs.  Usually this stems from some bad advice saying that talking money is in poor form or a fear that bringing it up will knock you out because they are out of your range.  When you do this you need to be armed with more than “I want $X.”  You need to justify why you want something.  You should share your recent salary history, factors why you deserve more and a specific range that you are comfortable with.  Remember, if you suggest you want $50K - $55K – you lose the right to be angry when they offer $50K.  Be honest – tell them that you want $55K - $60K then. 

3.  Be prepared to Negotiate
The first thing I tell anyone about negotiation is that you need to be prepared that the company can pull the offer and that you need to weigh this before you counter.  However, if you can’t accept the position it the current package then what do you have to lose?  I’ve encountered many people that have turned down an offer without asking only to find out after the fact that company would have made concessions to get them in.  When considering this don’t be afraid to negotiation on other items besides salary.  Vacation and benefits are free game.

4.  Thank them for the offer and ask for time to think about it
Even if you know that the offer won’t work for you – Thank them for it.  It’s good manners!  Thank them for the offer and ask if you can think about it for a day or two.  Give them a specific timeframe like – can I get back to you by Tuesday?  Remember that time kills all deals and that you shouldn’t try to push it farther than 24 – 72 hours.    When you get back to them start out by thanking them again.  From there tell them that you are really excited about the position but can’t make it work at this level.  Tell them that you would be happy to accept if they can get as close as possible to $X.

5.  Don’t deal in absolutes
When I was in school one of my teaches always told me that when taking a multiple choice test you should always avoid answers that have absolutes including always, never, every none.  The same can be applied to negotiations.  Essentially you can’t give ultimatums.  People don’t respond well to them.  Soften your approach by using words like close, near and about.  Finally, give them options.  Things like – I’d really like a higher salary but I could also look at a higher bonus potential.  However, only give these options if you are comfortable with all outcomes.  It’s kind of like the salary range.  You can’t give an option to soften things and then be mad because they chose the option you didn’t want.

That’s that.  I’m interested to hear about what you guys think on this subject.  Am I right?  Am I way off base?  Have a great week and as always feel free to leave comments or email me at sthompson@insurance-csg.com!

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Monday, June 18, 2012

Interviewing is Just like Dating –4 Dating Tips that can be Applied to your Search (or love life)


Hello world!  I hope you all had a terrific Father’s Day weekend!  As expected we were very busy.  The highlight of my weekend was taking the kids to the local Johnston Greendays Festival where there was a carnival.  Ava (5) and Mia (2.5) completely shocked me when they bypassed the kiddie rides and aimed all of interest at the fast rides.  By far their favorite ride was the Scrambler!



The funniest part about all of this was that neither of them said a word during the entire ride.  Then when it was over they started yelling Again, again, again!!!  And that’s the update from Des Moines!

Today I was perusing the internet when I came across an article titled - What Guarantees a Second Date by Christine M. Coppa – No -  I wasn’t looking for tips…  things are very happy in the Thompson household.  However, I’ve always believed that interviewing for a job is very similar to dating.  Let’s compare they are both worrisome, stressful, create sweaty palms, often not fruitful, both have the goal of generating a long term outcome, and you only want about 10% of either to call you back.  Anyway, the article gave four tips that in my opinion are just as applicable when you interview.  Have a look!

1.  A Shared Passion is Extremely Powerful
The dating article suggests that when there are shared interests there is a higher likelihood of sparks.  It  continues by saying that even when there aren’t sparks the common interests can lead to a second date as the common ground is reason enough for a second look.  Interviewing is the same way – I’ve often believed that someone’s work history and skill set accounts for only 50% (probably lower than this) of the reason someone gets hired.  The rest is personality, culture fit and - to be totally honest - how much the interviewer likes you.

So… how do you find common ground?  You can do this in a couple of ways.  First, Google your interviewer.  Be careful not to dig too deep into their personal life and instead look for any bio’s about  them and their LinkedIn page.  Look for common professional interests like education, associations and hobbies.  The other way you can do this is to look around when you enter their office.  A brief glance of my office shows about fifteen Iowa Hawkeye trinkets and even some bobble heads from the movie A Christmas Story.



Don’t make it the center of your interview but when you are gliding through the warm up, find a way to work it in.  You can say things like:

  • So… have you ever stuck your tongue to a light pole?
  • How about them Hawkeyes!
  • It’s really nice to meet you – I noticed you are in this association.  I just joined.  How long have you been a par of them.
  • I was looking at your bio and noticed that you went to XYZ State – so did I!  Was it a great experience for you too?

At the end of the day its just a way to grease the wheels and make your interview go smoother.  They will be more comfortable with you and will remember you!

2.  Put some Advanced Listening Skills into Practice
The article gives some really novel advice.  Listen to your date – it even suggests that you remember what they say and mention it again later.  Not so surprising is that you should listen to your interviewer as well.  One of the biggest problems I encounter is that people assume that the sole purpose of an interview is as an avenue to showcase  their skills and put themselves on display.  WRONG!  This is certainly an important component.  However, interviewers are looking for you to show off your social skills and your ability to interact in a conversation.  Furthermore, they are looking to promote their company and inform you about them and the position. 

This means that it must be a two way conversation and that you need to listen and listen well.  This can manifest in two ways.  First of all, you can refer back to something that the interviewer said later in the interview – as a bonus you can also refer back to something they said in a thank you note as well!  Secondly, you can practice active listening when they are speaking.  Make sure that you appear attentive and that you are making eye contact,  maybe taking a note or two and giving the appropriate body language – try nodding why they are talking.

3.  Comfortable Atmosphere = Comfortable with Each Other
This one is probably a better tip for the interviewer than the interviewee.  Yet I  think that it is important.  The article suggests that a dive bar is better for a first meeting than a 5 star restaurant.  I agree – if you are surrounded by formalness you will probably act formal instead of being yourself.  Like I said you really can’t control this as much you would like but there are a couple of things you can do:
  • Make yourself comfortable by wearing the suit you look the best in – not your best suit
  • If given  the chance to suggest a meeting place – suggest somewhere casual and laid back – Starbucks always is a nice choice

4.  Being Courteous is Key
I’m pretty sure I’ve written before that we are in the post Emily Post world – for those of you who don’t know, Emily Post is a world renowned expert on manners.  It just seems like we are increasingly forgetting to use our manners.  This goes without saying on a date but the same is true in an interview.  Below are a list of common errors people make:
  • Not holding the door for someone
  • Not saying thank you
  • Sitting down before your interviewer
  • Not shaking hands
  • Chewing gum
  • Not turning off your cell phone
  • Not wearing a suit
  • Showing up late

All of these things are in poor form and will hurt you.

That’s all I’ve got for this week!  Please let me know if you have any questions or comments and make it a great week!  As always you can email me at sthompson@insurance-csg.com or leave a comment below!

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Thursday, June 14, 2012

Yet More Stupid Career Tips Offered by Monster.com



If you are a regular reader of my blog you already know that I have extreme distaste for bad career advice.  One of the worst purveyors is Monster.com.  Regularly they pay to have their articles promoted by Yahoo giving what I consider to be sub par career advice.  Today we were blessed by two articles offering misleading information and bad advice. 



The first article - - $50K Jobs that Don’t Require a Degree – written by Christine Laue.  Christine lists herself as an employee of Payscale.com.  However, a quick internet search shows that she is a freelance writer – meaning that she probably isn’t any kind of expert on employment issues.  I can’t fault her for the piece – it is well written.  However, I can and do fault Monster for giving out information from an “expert” when it isn’t.  I’ve written about this before and I’ll say it again.  I hate these articles.  They are designed to give a light at the end of the tunnel to unemployed and underemployed people that are looking to get out of their miserable jobs.  The jobs listed include crane operator, millwright, retail manager and oil pumper and they are all shown as jobs that can pay in the $50K range – which as they put it is better than the entry level salary of a college graduate.  However, what is in the fine print is that with 5 – 8 years of experience in these jobs you can expect money in that arena. Well – duh – I would imagine that unless you are a doctor or a lawyer almost any job where you have 5 – 8 uninterrupted years of service you will get paid more than an entry level job. 

Additionally, just because a job doesn’t require a degree doesn’t mean that someone with a degree won’t get preference.  Finally, could they have come up with more random jobs that are unattainable for the average person? Of all of these jobs the only ones that an average person in an average location could attain is retail store manager, crane operator and millwright.  Thanks for the false hope payscale!

The second article Seven Employer Danger Signs by a Mr. Charles Purdy actually does have some great advice.  However, I took issue with tone piece of advice that is just flat out wrong – it really struck a nerve with me.  In it he suggests that you should check out a company’s reputation on the internet before you make a decision.  He specifically says to look at what other employees are saying about the company.

I want you to stop and think about this for a second.  Picture your office and think of the person in your office you know that is most likely to get on Facebook or the internet and write bad stuff about your company or your boss.  Is this person’s opinion the one you want to base your career decision on?  The truth of the matter is the most vocal people are usually the most upset people.  Happy people don’t sing praises like mad people complain. Life just doesn’t’ work that way. 

Now… could there be truth to what is on the internet?  Absolutely!  However, I would suggest that you take the information with a grain of salt and compare it to what you find out through your own experience.  Honestly this goes for almost all negative information you find on the street – keep it in mind but make your own decision.

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Wednesday, June 13, 2012

Five Common Interviewing Blunders



Hello World!  I hope that you guys are having a terrific week!  Things continue to move at a fast pace here in the Thompson world.  We had Ava’s birthday party this past weekend and I’m proud to say that we can now be nominated as the coolest parents in the neighborhood.  Why?  Check out Ava’s final birthday present!

We are one toothless person and a dunk tank away from having our very own carnival!!!


It’s pretty fun.  I’ll  tell you a secret though.  Adults can go down…but the landing isn’t long enough and most times you end up five to ten feet away in the grass. 

Today I’m going to go back to interviewing and talk about some of the mistakes that people commonly make.  Interviewing is almost like a fine art or craft rather than a skill.  What I mean by this is that you will never, ever get one perfectly right.  Below are five mistakes I see people commonly make.  Take a look and let me know your thoughts.

1.  Answers Questions with Yes/No Answers
You’d be surprised but this is a way too common problem.  When companies interview you they are looking for substance and depth.  In contrast they are not filling out a survey.  So when someone asks you a question you have to give more than just yes or no answers.  Truly you need to give more than one sentence answers.  How do you do this?  It’s really pretty easy. 

When you are preparing for your interview you need to brainstorm and come up with five accomplishments that you are proud of from your career – that’s the easy part.  From there you need to think about what these accomplishments say about you as an employee and person.  After that you need to practice talking about them.  It doesn’t need to be a five minute story but it needs to be detailed.  Familiarize yourself with these examples and then be prepared to throw them in when you answer questions. 

2.  Assumes that the Interviewer Knows about your company/industry/career?
As a culture we are very egocentric and often times we assume that the person you are meeting for the first time already knows all of your basic information.  Here’s the scoop – they don’t.  In a perfect world interviewers would devote the same amount of preparation to getting ready for your interview that you do.  They would research your previous companies, study your resume and look you up on-line.  When you are asked to discuss your career you should operate under the assumption that they have not read your resume before meeting you (they probably haven’t), that they know nothing about your industry and that they don’t know what someone in your position does.  Don’t be condescending or patronizing – just explain the basics to them before getting more in depth.

3.  Hijacks the Interview
OK – so I understand that I just got done talking about how you should give additional information and be very detailed.  This is true.  However, there is always too much of a good thing.  A great interview typically  resembles a conversation instead of a presentation.  Here are a couple of things to keep in mind:
·        People have a short attention span – keep on  point
·        Keep your answers to 2 – 3 minutes at best
·        Ask questions of the interviewer – people like talking about themselves

4.  Doesn’t follow Interview Protocol
I’ve written extensively on this one in the past and will continue to.  For some reason there are people out there that either think they are better than everyone else or don’t think that the rules apply to them.  This line of thinking will submarine your interviews.  There is a laundry list of items but some of the most common ones are:
  • Wear a suit
  • Show up five minutes early
  • Send a thank you note
  • Don’t chew gum
  • Turn your cell phone off
  • Wait to sit until the interviewer does

The list goes on an on.  Just do your best and use common courtesy and you should be alright.

5.  Isn’t prepared for Common Interview Questions
This is one that is really inexcusable.   You can Google “common interview questions” and find thousands of lists of  the most common questions asked in an interview.  Take a look at all of these.   Below you’ll find some of the common interview questions I ask that should be know but somehow still trip people up:
  • Why are you looking to leave your current job? – I get that you might be happy and just looking to grow your career – However, you are the one interviewing.  Tell them that you are motivated to improve your career and are from time to time you are willing to explore select opportunities.
  • Why did you leave that job? – Read some of my other blogs – but just be honest and direct
  • How much were/are you making? (I’ll give you a hint on this one – I’d rather not share is not an acceptable answer)
  • What do you want to do next in your career? (Again – I don’t know is not going to help you)
  • Why are you interested in this job? – you better know this
  • What do you know about the company? – do some kind of research

I can virtually guarantee that 90% of these questions will be asked of you in an interview.  So… prepare for them and have an answer ready to go.  You can’t memorize the answer and give it verbatim – people don’t like hiring robots.  Instead, you need to think about these answers and practice answering them in different ways

That’s all for this week!  What do you guys think?  If you have anything to add or comments please email me at sthompson@insurance-csg.com.

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